Mid-size to plus size and worrying someone will think I catfished them when we meet in person.

2022.01.16 19:55 aloesatan Mid-size to plus size and worrying someone will think I catfished them when we meet in person.

I’m a short, curvy woman. I take care of my health and lift weights - this is just the body I’m destined to have barring developing an eating disorder. I’ve made a really great connection with someone. We live in different cities but plan to meet soon. We met on an app and I think my pics show my body type but I dont think I had a full body uploaded when we matched. I made an offhand comment about “when I was in shape” and they responded by saying “as for being in shape I think you’re gorgeous.” So all logical signs point to this person being aware of my body type and liking it but I can’t shake the anxiety associated with the “what if I’m fatter than they expected” when we meet. So I guess the question is do I try and slip something into convo to make it clear that I’m not thin or do I just let it go, meet up and try to be my best confident self?
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2022.01.16 19:55 hightechburrito Best site prep for future garden area?

Hi All,
I’m starting to plan out what will be the garden area at my house. It’s currently an side yard about 12-15’ x 30’ (goes from 12-15 feet wide). The soil is very rocky so I was planning on putting in raised beds rather than trying to remove the rocks and improve the existing soil. It also has a fair amount of weed growth from being neglected (not sure of what exactly, but a mix of clovers, random grasses, and other generic “weeds”).
My wife likes the idea of raised wooden beds with gravel or similar crushed rock covering the rest of the area. What’s the best process to follow to get from where I am to that?
My guesses:
1) Get rid of weeds. Since I’ll be putting in raised beds, can I just nuke the area with herbicide? I’ll be bringing in clean garden soil to grow in after so there’s no worry of nothing growing in the current soil.
2) Put down weed barrier. I don’t want to put down anything that will mess up the drainage so don’t want plastic sheeting. Will the cloth weed barriers allow water to pass through.
3) Place garden boxes where desired. Should I have the weed barrier go enraptured the boxes or have the bottomless boxes the on bare soil?
4) Place gravel/stone/etc elsewhere. How thick should this layer be? I have a 4” concrete patio up against this area so any thicker and it would spill onto the patio.
One question I also have is should I level the ground off before the weed barrier? It’s currently graded towards the yard drains but very rocky. I would maintain the overall grade but even it out (so flatten more than level). If I don’t them there will be areas that the gravel would be 2” thick and other areas it would be 6” thick.
If there’s any other gotchas that I’m missing please chime in.
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2022.01.16 19:55 HappyDadOfFourJesus Who moved my cheese?

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2022.01.16 19:55 VirgilVanCleef HIMYF should be about these two

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2022.01.16 19:55 AutoNewspaperAdmin [National] - Bond revoked for man accused of killing employee | CNN

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2022.01.16 19:55 KeyManga Making and painting a tiny vase

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2022.01.16 19:55 Arcphoenix_1 Cursed Drawings of LoR characters no one asked for #1: Roland in ObsidianWasp's style

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2022.01.16 19:55 SuivanteIntuitonn His Red Flags Draw Blood

I was explaining to my bf how some of the things says and does really is starting to effect my mental state.
Last week I asked if there was a reason his sex drive has decreased. He told me my body isn't as special because he sees it all the time. ouch I do breastfeed and I tend to walk around the house half naked or shirtless.
I went to take a shower after this comment and just balled my eyes out. I now make sure I'm fully covered if he's home.
Our son is almost 10 months. Lately I've asked for help with the overnights on the weekends because I'm just getting exhausted. I honestly just need 1 good night a week and ill be fine. 2 would be amazing. He agrees then its a fight when those nights hit.
He says its fine if he doesn't get up because he's too tired and he read that you don't need to feed the baby overnight. I'm sorry but my baby pees a lot and yes, he is hungary. I told him that's neglect. "He will get up eventually" is how he put it. I'm a mom and the second my baby cries, I'm waking up. So when I'm sitting there waiting to see if he will budge, he doesn't. So it takes me a good 10 tries before he starts getting up. He's usually pretty mean and by this time its been a good 15/20mins. Then half the time he just sits on the bed and stares at our baby crying before comforting him or tending to his needs. I'm now beyond awake and extremely pissed.
If he refuses to get up all together I obviously get the baby and yeah I'm a whole b*tch to him. I've never gotten an apology nor any empathy. His best excuse is that he's a new parent and he's trying. He truly believes hes an A1 dad. Till this day I haven't gotten 1 night of sleep.
So I had an emotional breakdown today and he just went to sleep. Nasty habit he's come to have. I relapsed on cutting because I'm just low man. I'm back in therapy and I simply attempted to tell him what exactly has been hurting me. He said because of our arguments he just doesn't have any emotional energy to support me and he's trying his best. He adds how much he loves me and my son, that his intentions are never to hurt me.
Does he suck at showing he cares or is this manipulation? I have a huge issue with rose colored glasses yo.. fr. I love my family more than anything.
Its just sad though because the bathroom floor or tub has become a regular safe place. I'm not an ugly girl, even after kids I'm told I look very good. I'm very colorful in personality and easily pleased. My kids are my world and I do w.e I'm asked by him. Sure I could have options but I just don't want them. I want my family.
I can get compliments and praised all day and it means nothing unless its him. My self esteem is trashed. He knows because he apologizes for ruining it and says to stop. "I'm a beautiful girl and a good mother, that I'm in charge of my own happiness." I tell him he just keeps hurting me, its hard and I'm just sad. I let him know it feels like he doesn't care. Then he hits me with the "why are you with me then?" Im just confused and I hate feeling this way.
Insight please? I like brutal honesty. I need it.
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2022.01.16 19:55 BasicallySanic Is using the spear with a shield one handed or pole arm skill?

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2022.01.16 19:55 Odd_Letterhead7766 Parents wanting to know grades?

Is it normal for parents to be demanding to see their kids’ grades after every semester? I’m tax dependent and apparently this means that my parents can find out my grades without my written consent if they want to. This makes me very uneasy because while I am working hard and know what I have to do to get better, mediocre grades are what my parents hate so it makes me uneasy having to tell them or they’ll find out on their own.
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2022.01.16 19:55 Exciting_Clock2807 I had cost-efficient game against Terran

Apparently Roach-Infestor-Corruptor are pretty good against Terran Bio, if you are in position. You still need a mobile group of lings and static defenses to deal with drops.
I still lost because I allowed my opponent to take 2 more bases than me, but still that was a very fun game.
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2022.01.16 19:55 TheShahShank Sustainable fashion + responsible traveling

I have been traveling for 15 years and when you move around a lot, once in a while you need to refresh your wardrobe. But I hate buying cheap, fast fashion clothing and love supporting local brands wherever I go. It lets me fully immerse in that culture. At the same time, being a light traveler, I hate carrying those clothes around. That’s why I started a new company geared towards travelers who think a bit more sustainably. We are mainly a rental shop and our intention is to promote the circular economy. We are now live in Mexico City and 90% of our items are made locally by luxury Mexican designers.
Just wanted to share it here. ☺️
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2022.01.16 19:55 moth_and_lamp_4ever discord_irl

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2022.01.16 19:55 AutoNewspaperAdmin [National] - PD: Newborn baby boy found dead outside fire station | CNN

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2022.01.16 19:55 zanety Win a pair of Custom VMODA Headphones! ($330) (02/01/2022) {??}

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2022.01.16 19:55 personesque Question: Does the Frenchman ever explicitly say he and Whitney are dating?

In Season 9, Whitney goes from taking lessons from the Frenchman to 'dating' him, according to her. And yet on the phone, the Frenchman doesn't at all sound like he is aware that they are dating, or even wanting to be anything more than friends with her. I sometimes fast forward through scenes that I sense will be too cringey (like, a lot of her 'romantic' banter), so perhaps I missed this conversation. I recall him saying he *didnt* want to date her, because of the backlash against Chase, but I guess I missed the part where he caved and admitted romantic intentions... Did it ever happen, though? Did he ever say he was interested in her romantically?
At the end of Season 9 we see Whitney at the airport, and she tells her parents, "I'm going to go get my man!" But earlier, when she told the Frenchman she'd bought a ticket to Paris, he seemed completely ambivalent about meeting her. Their relationship seems odd, like they're living in two separate realities.
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2022.01.16 19:55 wallsarecool2 free nft this is going to get banned

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2022.01.16 19:55 Bumpadump2002 Six Fanarts #7 (Nintendo Characters) art by me

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2022.01.16 19:55 sevent33nthFret Now I can finally express my love of IPAs in Russian!

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2022.01.16 19:55 NewsElfForEnterprise This Triple-Dome Design in North Carolina Is Simply Dreamy

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2022.01.16 19:55 LeekAccording2512 I know nobody cares about STTI. Unless they doing better then the JBP. podcast deal?🤔

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2022.01.16 19:55 AutoNewspaperAdmin [National] - Dog recovering after paws are shocked while walking down street | CNN

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2022.01.16 19:55 St1ffl3r5mum Just For Fun - Solid Snake Outfit and Cardboard Box Disguise?

I know it would never happen, but anyone else think this would be the ideal game to have such a funny little gimmick? Imagine popping out of a box with a DBS and dropping a full squad 🤣
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